Thoughts of Me Will Rise With the Sun

He sent me a picture of the sun set. He knows I enjoy watching the sun rise and sun set, and as he witnessed the day turn to dusk and surrender into the night, he sent me something I loved to let me know I was on his mind.  I smiled, and then I realizedContinue reading “Thoughts of Me Will Rise With the Sun”

The Key to My Happiness

They didn’t want “one of the guys” as a significant other. They wanted a woman in touch with her feminine energy. So I studied what it meant to be a woman in her feminine, practiced staying in my feminine energy, and allowed the men in my life to take the role of the masculine.

2020/2021: It’s Not You, It’s Me

At the end of 2019, I decided I’d had enough of being the “Fall Back Girl”, I had enough of emotionally unavailable men, and I was going to open myself up to healthier relationships that would lead to a long term partnership. I vowed to get out and date, date different types of men, and not fall into the same infatuation traps as before. I started reading different books on relationships and why we choose the way we do, listened to dating coaches, dating podcasts, and just generally expanded my mind to help me end the pattern of surface level relationships.

But, old habits die hard. 

Wounds Will Heal, But You’ll Never Be Over It

Then she said something that inspired me to write this blog post: “You’re going to heal but never be over it. It hurts when we trust people and they violate it. I hope you never get immune to the feeling because it’s what makes you such an advocate.”

Love: What Are You So Afraid Of?

The dreaded L word. In today’s society it is common to guard our heart. Men “don’t want a relationship” and women take pride in NOT catching feelings. We don’t date to marry and in FACT, we don’t “date”. We hook up, but only long enough to get our fill. Then the minute someone catches feelingsContinue reading “Love: What Are You So Afraid Of?”

Letter To the Next Target

A Letter to the Next Target: In nearly every toxic relationship, there is another partner: the replacement. At first, this person is the main source of contention and hatred in your recovery journey. They are presumed to be the home-wrecker. They ran off happily with your soul mate, flaunting themselves all over Facebook for theContinue reading “Letter To the Next Target”

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